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Like Scientology, it’s not easy to quit social media. Many platforms want a reason why you are saying goodbye and make it deliberately hard to get to this point. Some ask several times if this is something you really want to do. It’s your choice, of course, but is it the ‘right’ choice?

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It becomes a rather intimate social network: “Over time, there’s successive cycles through the hook. It’s not just about capturing the moment, Instagram is also a social network,” Eyal says. “So now the internal triggers become boredom, seeking connection, FOMO [Fear of Missing Out].”

And you’ll never want to miss out again: “FOMO is a huge reason to use Instagram,” Eyal says. “Not just to take pictures, but this fear of missing out on the moment. And my solution to alleviate hat pain point, that psychological itch, is to open Instagram and scroll through.”

Worrying stuff, right? Everything starts to get a little Black Mirror when you realise none of this down to chance. As Eyal points out, Instagram founder Kevin Systrom majored in symbolic systems at Stanford, a field that lies at the intersection of psychology and computer science. “[Systrom] knows a lot,” he says.

That’s how it felt. Only I wasn’t looking in. I wasn’t looking at anything. It was quite daunting, especially at first. I can’t remember the amount of times I unlocked my phone only to realise that I didn’t have Instagram anymore. After a few seconds of dithering on my home screen, I would sheepishly put my phone back in my pocket. This happened many times. I called it Instagram the initial withdrawal period (around day three), the jittery hands had subsided and I was starting to feel better. I wasn’t worrying about taking a picture. I wasn’t dwelling on posting a witty caption. I wasn’t getting angry at someone’s smug, humblebrag post.

I felt out of the loop. Which, at first, was fine. But no one wants to live in the shadows forever. To be pushed to one side. It does sound a little crazy, but we currently live in a world where everyone is vying for position. Everyone wants to be heard. To make their mark. Social media platforms are the place for this.

A by line on an article used to be justification enough. A glowing nod from your boss was all one used to strive for. But those days are long gone. People need more. Currently, there is this need to tell the world what you are up to.

It seems I was no different. If I had created a video series (see, I’m doing it now), or a Men’s Health Masterclass event, I want people to know that it was me who worked on it. It sounds shallow, but these are the monsters we have become.

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